The Prosecution: Lex I am not particularly fond of having other people stay in my home, and besides, we don’t have enough space. My girlfriend Imani wants her sister Ayeesha to move in with us for almost three months, but I have reservations about it. Ayeesha recently broke up with her ex and found herself in a temporary housing situation. She is currently staying with her parents, but Imani believes it would be better for her to live with us for more support. Personally, I don’t think it’s the best option for any of us. Our spare room is very small, and I don’t think she would find it comfortable. The kitchen and living room are also not ideal since they are open plan. I can’t see where we would all go when we are at home together. Additionally, I am not the type of person who enjoys having an open-door policy where everyone is welcome in my home. Ayeesha is currently working her notice period from her old job at home, which means she will be around a lot. While Ayeesha is quiet and low-maintenance, I still don’t think it is worth having her in my flat for three months.
The Defense: Imani It would be a dream come true for me to have my sister live with us and contribute to the cost of the flat. Lex and Ayeesha get along well, and Ayeesha is an easy person to be around. She is tidy and introverted, so she won’t demand constant entertainment. Lex is worried about the lack of space when he comes home from work, but I don’t think he would even notice Ayeesha’s presence. I have suggested to Ayeesha that she works from a shared office space to give us all more breathing room, and she agreed. The spare room will be perfectly fine for her. Having some extra income will also be great for us, especially since we are changing mortgages and our new rate will be high. I would rather have my sister stay with us instead of a stranger. Ayeesha currently lives with our parents in the countryside, and I know she would appreciate being back in the city. She had a tough breakup, and I want to help her out. I understand Lex’s concerns, but I think he is being a bit selfish in this situation. We are both in our late twenties and should be going out and exploring more, so having Ayeesha with us would benefit both our finances and our relationship. I will continue to discuss this with Lex and hopefully convince him to agree. Even if Ayeesha only stays for a month, I would like to make it happen.
The Jury of Guardian Readers: Should Lex relent and let Imani’s sister help pay the rent? I side with Lex on this issue because everyone deserves a peaceful evening in their own home. Ayeesha is not in a dire situation since her parents are willing to help her. The couple’s flat was never meant for three people, and it would most likely be a draining experience for everyone involved. Antoni, 24
Lex is being selfish here. Ayeesha should be able to stay with Imani for a few months after her breakup. As long as she contributes to the mortgage and takes care of her own responsibilities, there should be no issue. David, 30
Imani is open to finding a compromise, while Lex is not. I think it would be fair for Ayeesha to stay for a shorter period of time and use a shared office space. Three months is not that long, and Ayeesha’s new job provides a clear end date. Elizabeth, 29
What are the benefits for Ayeesha in this situation? Living in a small room, paying for office space and the mortgage, all while dealing with Lex’s negative attitude. Imani, it seems like you mainly want Ayeesha to move in to revive your social life. Instead, why not have her stay for occasional long weekends? Joachin, 30
Why not try a trial weekend with Ayeesha to see how things go? If Lex continues to oppose the idea, Imani should let it go. Living in a small, tense flat can be unbearable. Rebecca, 29
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