- TikToker Katie Mathis has sparked a viral debate: should she move in with her ex-husband and his new wife?
- Viewers have mixed opinions, with some saying it makes economic sense but could be emotionally complicated.
- Despite the differing views, Mathis has decided to take the leap, stating that parents ultimately know what’s best for their children.
On Monday, 33-year-old influencer and photographer Katie Mathis took to TikTok to pose a thought-provoking question: “Should I move in with my ex-husband and his wife?”
Spoiler alert: Mathis has decided to take the plunge and move in on Friday, explaining that it will provide a more stable environment for their three daughters and that her relationship with her ex is healthy.
She will be residing in a separate, small apartment next to her ex’s house. “Doing this together is better,” she shared with Insider.
However, Mathis’ question, which has gained 2.1 million views, has divided viewers. Some support the decision, citing economic advantages and improved stability for the children. Others express concerns about potential conflicts and emotional challenges.
In a follow-up video discussing the pros and cons, Mathis acknowledged her worries about downsizing from her 2,800-square-foot home in Nashville to a 500-square-foot studio. She plans to rent out her own home for passive income and has the option to move back if needed.
At the end of her viral video, Mathis captures her ex-husband, retired NFL player Evan Mathis, asking her when she is moving in.
The trio is organizing all the details in a comprehensive binder, Mathis revealed.
Mathis shared with Insider that she and her ex-husband have been separated for around six years after being married for approximately eight. They have three daughters aged 6, 8, and 11 and previously maintained a 50-50 custody agreement.
While their relationship has had its ups and downs, Mathis stated that they are currently getting along very well. Her partner of one-and-a-half years also fully supports her decision.
Mathis mentioned that she had already made up her mind about the move before posting the question on TikTok but wanted to use the viral nature of the platform to encourage and inspire others.
“I want to demonstrate that you can have disagreements with your co-parent but still maintain your dignity,” she explained. “Our kids don’t witness our conflicts or fights.”
To address potential conflicts and concerns raised by critics, Mathis and her ex-husband are creating a detailed binder outlining all the logistics of the living arrangement. This includes determining areas of the house she can access, scheduling personal private time, and coordinating household responsibilities like groceries and laundry.
While Mathis doesn’t take TikTok comments too seriously, she acknowledges that some people in her life, especially single friends who haven’t experienced divorce, have questioned her decision. However, she believes that ultimately parents know what’s best for their children.
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