Audrey, 62
I once came close to having an affair, but I never asked Clyde directly if he cheated.
Clyde and I have been in a long-lasting relationship for over 42 years, and we’ve always kept our connection exciting and fresh.
During our time living abroad, we indulged in tantric massages as a couple. We would lie side by side, looking into each other’s eyes, while a skilled masseuse would provide a sensual massage. We both value fantasy in our relationship. It’s essential to give your partner the freedom to imagine and explore their desires with others. While I’ve had intense crushes over the years, I wouldn’t want an open relationship because I fear developing emotional attachments outside of our marriage. However, a little flirtation is harmless.
I almost crossed the line into an affair once, but I’ve always been intrigued by the idea of indulging in lust without emotional connections. Can purely sexual encounters exist? It’s like seeing something tempting in a shop window, but realizing it’s best to savor what you have at home.
In my fantasies, I’m always the captivating star desired by men. However, as I’ve entered my 60s, it’s become harder to fully sell that fantasy to myself. Nevertheless, I still have confidence in my appearance with my big boobs and small waist.
As time goes on, tantric massages and crushes occur less frequently. My libido has slowed down a bit, and Clyde’s use of antidepressants has affected his ability to orgasm. Initially, this made me feel insecure, questioning if he still desired sex. However, I’ve come to accept that pleasure can still be found in our intimate moments, even without his climax. He continues to initiate sex, showing his enjoyment.
The key to our enduring relationship is that we genuinely like each other as much as we love each other. Clyde’s sense of humor brings laughter into our lives, and his affectionate nature is heartwarming. I’ll never forget the first time I stayed with his family and witnessed his dad kissing his sons goodnight. Clyde taught me the importance of non-sexual intimacy, which contributes just as much to my happiness as sexual intimacy. While sex is wonderful, it’s not essential; rather, it’s the icing on the cake.
Clyde, 62
If you have a crush on someone you both know, it’s best not to discuss them during sex, but thinking about them can be stimulating.
I believe having crushes on other people is completely normal. Meeting Audrey didn’t suddenly stop me from finding other women attractive. The truth is, I still find other women appealing, and I suspect Audrey has her own crushes as well.
If you and your partner both know the person you have a crush on, it’s usually best to avoid bringing them up during sex. However, fantasizing about them can add excitement. It’s crucial to ensure that these attractions don’t become dangerous or a result of feeling unloved within the marriage. If you’re both fulfilled and satisfied, these crushes can simply be harmless fun.
One significant change in our sex life is my inability to reach orgasm. Ever since I began taking antidepressants in my late 30s, this side effect became prevalent. It’s ironic because when Audrey and I first met, I experienced premature ejaculation. Initially, the medication simply delayed my climax, resulting in longer-lasting sex sessions. However, as I’ve grown older, reaching climax has become a challenge. Despite this, we’ve adapted and found pleasure in other ways. Luckily, I am skilled in foreplay from my early experiences with premature ejaculation.
Audrey and I used to consider afternoon sex as the height of indulgence, but now we prefer morning encounters. We prioritize intimacy and begin each day with a 30-minute spooning session. This morning cuddle may lead to sex, but it doesn’t have to. Simply cuddling and kissing is delightful. Although we no longer share the same bed due to my troubled sleep and Audrey’s preference to sleep with the cat, we continue to cherish our daily ritual.
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