In the immortal words of Oliver Cheatham, “I like to party… Everybody does.” Well, maybe not everybody. It’s surprising how many people actually admit to hating parties. Especially now, during the pandemic, it’s hard to find anyone who considers themselves a party animal. Yet, despite this, the spirit of parties still persists. People continue to celebrate birthdays, host gatherings, and throw work farewell parties that no one wants to attend. Sometimes I wonder why we put ourselves through this. But we do. And maybe that’s a good thing. Otherwise, our lives would be nothing but work, home, and screens. When we think about it that way, parties may be the last remnants of our humanity. We must fight for our right to party and do so with confidence. Here’s how to do it.
1. Be kind to yourself and others: After months of limited social interaction, it’s natural to feel a bit rusty. Give yourself time to adapt and recover your social skills.
2. Be a good guest (basic level): The old-fashioned advice of being a good guest never fails. Be helpful, engage in small talk, and offer assistance to the host.
3. Be a good guest (advanced level): If you’re not the host, try to impress them by praising their home, outfit, or any effort they put into the party. This can help you establish a connection with the hosts and their close friends.
4. Drink before the party (and then don’t drink at all): Instead of consuming alcohol throughout the evening, limit yourself to one drink before the party. This can reduce social pressure and make the event more enjoyable for everyone.
5. Remember why you are going to the party: Have a goal in mind when attending a party, such as making connections and getting to know new people. Seek out those who are alone and engage them in conversation.
6. If you can’t remember why you are going, don’t go: It’s okay to occasionally skip social events if you don’t feel like attending. However, avoid telling others that you’re not coming because you don’t see the point. Reflect on why you’re avoiding parties and determine if it’s due to a genuine lack of interest or fear.
7. Dress appropriately for the temperature: Consider the potential temperature at the party and choose clothing that will keep you comfortable. Opt for loose-fitting maxidresses, linen shirts, or wide-legged trousers depending on the occasion.
8. Plan your outfit with standing in mind: Parties often involve standing for extended periods. Select shoes that are comfortable and suitable for walking and standing. Consider unexpected pops of color or statement footwear to add flair to your outfit.
9. Dress codes don’t matter (even if there is one): Don’t stress about dress codes. If you make a mistake, let go of any shame or regret and enjoy the party. What matters is feeling confident and comfortable in what you wear.
10. Make others feel fascinating: Instead of focusing on your own anxieties, divert your attention to others. Engage in conversations, ask questions, and show genuine interest in people. This will help you forget your own worries and create a positive, enjoyable atmosphere.
Remember, parties are meant to be fun and social experiences. Embrace them with confidence, be kind to yourself and others, and make the most of every celebration.
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