Annie, 28, has the most incredible skin you’ve ever seen. Our paths first crossed at a college party back in 2012, although I hadn’t come out as trans at that time. Cate, on the other hand, was already quite popular on campus while I was more of a wallflower. We exchanged an awkward greeting, but all I could think about was how stunning she looked as she walked by.
Years later, we found ourselves working on a project together and reconnected. By this point, I had come out as trans and felt a bit more comfortable in my own skin. Cate, who shared my love for skincare, invited me over to her place for a facial. We tried to convince ourselves that we were just good friends.
I vividly remember lying down with my head in her lap as she tenderly touched my face. It was a moment filled with intimacy and vulnerability. Cate was wearing shorts, and in that moment, I couldn’t resist reaching out to stroke her leg. Our eyes locked, and before I knew it, I blurted out, “I’m going to have to bite your leg now.” And so, I playfully bit her on the thigh. Let me tell you, her skin is the softest I’ve ever felt.
We are two individuals who have always longed for a sense of familiarity and support in our lives, and now we have found that in each other. Nothing more happened that night as I wanted to take things slow. Before coming out as trans, I identified as a gay man, and during that period, my relationship with sex wasn’t the healthiest. It often involved risky behavior and substance use. I craved validation, but I was going about it the wrong way. Looking back, I’ve come to realize that those encounters were more about seeking physical pleasure than emotional connection.
A few nights later, we finally had sex, and it was a complete revelation. It was like the difference between night and day. With Cate, I found myself desiring to be fully present in the moment, rather than using sex as an escape. Our sexual encounters may be less frequent now, but we have become more intimately acquainted with each other’s bodies. Hormone therapy has affected my sex drive, so sometimes I find myself needing to initiate things before fully getting into the mood. I was going to compare our sex life to a volcano, but it’s really about the comfort and familiarity we find with each other. Did I mention that Cate is incredibly attractive?
Cate, 31, shares her side of the story. The day before our first kiss, Annie stayed over at my place, but we didn’t do anything intimate. She can sleep through anything, while I lay there all night, consumed by nerves. I was infatuated with her energy and charm. However, we were merely friends and colleagues. The following night, as we lay in bed, I couldn’t stop thinking about kissing her. I remember turning over to face each other, and in that moment, our eyes met, and the inevitable happened. It felt as if I had been holding my breath for two weeks, and finally, I could exhale.
When we initially started our sexual relationship, it was intense and frequent, like rabbits. However, as time went on, the frequency decreased to once every few days. Annie’s hormone therapy impacts her sex drive, and I’ve learned not to take it personally when she doesn’t have the capacity to engage in that part of our relationship. We’ve had open conversations about our desires and preferences, which has led us to be more experimental in the bedroom. We’ve explored different roles and dynamics, and it has brought us closer.
The best sexual experience we’ve ever had was recently, the day after my birthday. We were in a secluded cabin, nursing hangovers from a night of celebration that involved KFC. We had brought along our favorite toy, lovingly named LaWanda, which has 18 settings and a 100% success rate. That day, the pleasure was so intense that I think I saw my own brain when my eyes rolled back. There’s something undeniably sexy about the vulnerability and neediness that comes with a hangover.
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