- A month into our relationship, and while on our way to a date, we walked into a church of Scientology.
- Neither of us identifies with a particular religion, and we were ushered to answer a questionnaire.
- My partner was in and out in minutes, but they asked me questions for over two hours.
Dating is a peculiar and captivating experience. It’s a rollercoaster of good, bad, and downright bizarre moments. But sometimes, the strangest of dates turn out to be the most unforgettable and impactful.
That’s exactly what happened to me and my partner. Just one month into our relationship, we stumbled upon the church of Scientology, and our visit turned out to be an unexpected and enlightening adventure.
We sheltered from the rain in the church
Our date seemed ordinary enough at first. We had plans to go into town, watch a movie, and maybe grab a few drinks. It was the beginning of our relationship, where everything was lighthearted and filled with curiosity.
As we walked down the main street, we couldn’t ignore the presence of the Church of Scientology. Located in the city center, it always sparked conversations. On that rainy evening, seeking respite from the downpour, my partner suggested we take cover in the church. Curiosity got the better of us, and we found ourselves ascending the spiral staircase into the lobby.
We were asked to take a test
Neither of us identified with any specific religion, but we shared an appreciation for spirituality and faith. Scientology had always intrigued me with its celebrity associations, futuristic science fiction beliefs, and exclusive congregation.
As we entered, we were warmly greeted by two members who invited us to complete the Oxford Capacity Analysis test. This extensive questionnaire touched upon various aspects of our lives, from marital status and employment to profound thoughts on death and existence.
Answering questions with a simple “yes,” “no,” or “maybe” seemed inadequate for such profound philosophical inquiries. But we embraced the opportunity to explore the depths of our personalities. It was a significant moment that could have caused hesitation or unease, but our sense of adventure propelled us further down the rabbit hole.
We underwent separate interviews
After submitting our tests for processing, we were led to separate interview rooms. It felt as if I was on a completely different date with someone else.
My partner, being rational and objective, breezed through his interview in under 10 minutes. Whether it was his logical mindset or his refusal to be swayed, he was dismissed to the waiting area. Meanwhile, my interviewer delved deep into my faith, belief systems, morals, and overall perspective on life for nearly two hours.
Pacing nervously in the lobby, my partner began to worry that this impromptu visit would lead to a radical transformation in my beliefs. Lost in incense-filled thoughts and profound introspection, we finally left the church, promising ourselves to further research the subject in our own time.
It brought us closer than ever
Many would label this date as a nightmarish experience, and in some ways, it was. However, as soon as we stepped back into the real world, something shifted in our relationship.
Never before had my partner and I felt comfortable exploring the uncomfortable aspects of life. The conversations we had in that church fostered genuine openness between us. Nothing was off-limits. We could now discuss our beliefs, our desires within the relationship, and be completely vulnerable with each other.
This unforgettable date empowered us to be unapologetically ourselves and authentic in our relationship. It will forever remain etched in my memory, not for the madness and peculiarity of the experience, but for the profound impact it had on our connection.
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