- While I haven’t made a firm decision about having children yet, I have a vast collection of baby names in mind.
- I’m actively saving videos on gentle parenting to educate myself in case I do choose to have kids.
- I firmly believe that it’s never too early to start planning for the significant responsibility of raising children.
Currently, I am engrossed in researching baby names and exploring parenting resources. It’s not just a small collection of names; I have nearly 400 names saved on my phone that have captured my attention. Sometimes, my TikTok For You Page is filled with baby name videos, further fueling my fascination.
On Instagram, I have curated a folder called “Kids Resources” where I save 85 parenting posts. This folder includes various content such as vegan baby-food recipes and kids’ shoes. While this level of dedication to parenting resources may seem unusual for someone without kids or immediate plans for them, this is simply the result of my deep-rooted interest in names and the commitment to be well-prepared if the opportunity to become a parent arises in the future.
Names have always intrigued me
I find names incredibly fascinating overall, and there is an abundance of baby name content available online. The possibilities for first and middle name combinations, as well as nicknames, are endless. For instance, I might come across a name I like, such as Hallie, and explore the multitude of variations that could serve as nicknames for it (although there are not many in this case).
Hours can go by as I browse through videos about vintage names, making note of the ones that capture my interest and revisiting them later to reflect on whether I truly like them. It amazes me how our perception of names can change based on where we first encounter them, how frequently we encounter them, the associations we make with them, and our ability to alter our perspective.
It is also intriguing how names are still often categorized as masculine or feminine, despite their overlapping sounds and fluidity over time. A fun fact: Hazel, which used to be considered a name for both boys and girls, is regaining popularity as a name for boys.
Early preparation for parenthood
I understand that my level of preparation may seem excessive, especially considering that I am still uncertain about whether I want children. I am not criticizing anyone who does not engage in the same level of preparation; I am aware that my approach may seem unconventional. My initial intention was to find great books for the children in my life, but it gradually evolved into a quest to gather as much knowledge as possible in anticipation of becoming a parent someday.
Parenting appears to be a challenging journey, and it seems that once you have children, there is limited time for learning. Therefore, I am delving into various content related to parenting styles, intuitive eating, body image, and gentle parenting. Contrary to popular belief, gentle parenting does not imply allowing your child to do whatever they please. It revolves around fostering a healthy relationship with food and the body.
Still contemplating parenthood
While I have always thought that I wanted children, I have begun to question this desire, especially in recent years. I find myself pondering whether this desire stems from societal expectations or if it genuinely aligns with my personal aspirations.
Currently, I am in no rush to have kids, especially after witnessing the demands of parenthood firsthand. Additionally, my long COVID condition adds another layer of complexity to my future plans. Imagining being a parent with the level of fatigue I experience seems daunting. Consequently, I try to focus on living in the present moment and taking life one day at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
Upon reflection, it seems that my current obsession with parenting resources may stem from the need for some semblance of control in an uncertain phase of life. As my symptoms fluctuate, there are times when I am unable to engage in many activities. Therefore, preparing for an unpredictable future provides solace to my anxious mind. Regardless, I have genuinely enjoyed discovering numerous valuable accounts on social media, and I highly recommend utilizing social platforms to access parenting resources, regardless of whether you have children, are expecting, or simply share my enthusiasm for the subject.
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