I was fatigued and slightly overwhelmed when it happened: the lid of the jar slipped off at the wrong moment, resulting in a disastrous situation. However, I paused for a despondent minute and assessed the damage. In my Le Creuset pan on the stove, I had sausages intended for a pasta sauce, along with an excessive amount of chili flakes. Panic set in as thoughts of ordering pizza crossed my mind. Nevertheless, I didn’t want to waste the sausages or my efforts, so I decided to press forward. Both my partner and I enjoy spicy food, so I wondered how bad it could truly be.
To my surprise, it wasn’t bad at all. Although I wouldn’t serve it to guests, we ended up having seconds. It was a memorable experience, and as I loaded the dishwasher and contemplated tomorrow’s cooking amidst the chaos of a busy week, I pondered the concept of kindness in the kitchen, particularly towards myself. Don’t worry, I have no intention of transforming into a self-help guru. What I mean is that sometimes, I need to cut myself some slack. And in fact, we all should. Perfection may be elusive, but apparent disasters are seldom as catastrophic as they seem. Most dishes can be salvaged, and almost everything is edible in extreme situations. Even Delia Smith, renowned cook and author, enjoyed the cake I hastily baked for her despite its imperfect rise. She and her husband relished each cardamom-scented crumb.
Approaching dinner time without a well-thought-out plan invites risk to the table, even though we haven’t set a place for it. This notion of ease in the kitchen, a gentle and unassuming confidence, has captured my attention recently, not just because of my chili mishap. I’ve just completed a small book on food, and throughout the process, my main focus was on being not necessarily helpful (since it’s not a recipe book), but encouraging. The paradox of our current food culture, saturated with cooking shows and an overwhelming number of cookbooks published every week, is that it often leaves us feeling less confident rather than more. How can we possibly match what we see or read? Deep down, we know that these so-called experts sometimes fake it to make it, yet we fear improvisation ourselves. The unpredictability of winging it in the kitchen as dinner approaches brings the risk of failure to the table, despite not preparing for it or even folding a napkin to wipe away its frustrating smears.
Fortunately, it seems I’m not the only one pondering these thoughts. Recently, I came across an early copy of Bee Wilson’s enlightening work, “The Secret of Cooking,” and it has become my go-to guide. Many cookbooks promise a less stressful and more enjoyable kitchen experience, just like Wilson’s does. However, the section headings alone reveal her commitment to delivering on those promises. “Cut yourself some slack” and “Reduce your options: the sweetness of routine” are just a couple of examples. Wilson focuses on probability rather than possibility, encouraging her readers to cook for the life they have instead of an unattainable fantasy existence. This approach mirrors how she cooks daily. Her book is filled with handy tricks, shortcuts, and ingredient substitutions. She even dedicates 15 pages solely to the incredible versatility of the box grater (which, by the way, is not only for cheese).
This being Wilson’s debut cookery book, although she is already an esteemed food writer, it is worth noting that her experience shines through its pages. Time spent in the kitchen accumulates wisdom, and she’s made the most of it. Reading about someone else’s years of mishaps and lessons learned is a path towards the ease I’ve been contemplating. It turns out that hard-earned confidence can be shared, much like a beautiful bowl.
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