- Parents undergo training to ensure the safety of their children, but it’s crucial to be prepared in case a child goes missing.
- Darrin Giglio, a investigator, advises staying calm, evaluating the circumstances, and immediately reporting to the police.
- Therapist Avigail Lev suggests acting quickly and reaching out to the child if they have a phone.
One of a parent’s greatest fears is their child going missing. While parents do everything they can to keep their children safe, it’s important to be prepared for such situations.
Darrin Giglio, a missing-persons investigator at North American Investigations, emphasizes that every missing child scenario is different. Factors such as age and circumstances play a crucial role in determining the best approach.
Equally important is understanding the circumstances surrounding the disappearance. Giglio highlights the importance of discerning whether it’s a suspected kidnapping by a stranger, a parental abduction, or an unrelated event like a custody battle or divorce.
These factors guide the appropriate actions in case of a missing child. It’s essential to carefully evaluate the situation, use sound judgment, and seek assistance from law enforcement and missing-persons investigators if necessary.
When it becomes evident that a child is missing, here are some steps to take:
Stay calm, act quickly, and contact law enforcement
Giglio describes a common fear: momentarily looking away from a young child in a large store, only to find them missing upon turning back.
First, thoroughly check the immediate surroundings, as children may sometimes hide or wander off. If the child cannot be found nearby, it becomes crucial to act swiftly.
“In this serious scenario, time is of the essence, and immediate police involvement is necessary,” Giglio advises.
When reporting to the police, it’s essential to remain calm and provide them with all relevant details, including an accurate description and a current photo of the missing child. Additionally, share any specific information related to the time of disappearance.
“Acting quickly is crucial when a child goes missing,” says Avigail Lev, a licensed cognitive-behavioral therapist and director of the Bay Area CBT Center. “Your actions should be based on your last interaction with your child and your understanding of the situation.”
If the child has a phone, call them immediately. If there’s no answer, leave voicemails and send reassuring texts and emails, emphasizing that they will not be punished and that the priority is their safe return, according to Lev.
While emotions may run high in such situations, it’s important for parents to remain calm and provide accurate and detailed information to assist investigators effectively.
“This situation is highly emotional,” Giglio acknowledges. “However, we must set aside our emotions to remain composed and clear-headed in aiding the police or private investigators. Composure is necessary for making the best decisions possible.”
Adds Lev: “Don’t be passive and expect the police to prioritize this on their own.”
Use social media, notify others, and maintain contact with law enforcement
While the police investigate and search for potential witnesses and security-camera footage, it’s vital to reach out to friends, family, neighbors, and schools to inform them about the situation. They can assist in the search or provide valuable information for the investigation.
Sharing updates on social media about the child’s disappearance can be helpful as well, as it facilitates the rapid spread of information and may generate important leads.
“Reach out to your child’s friends, gather their contacts from their phone, and review their activity on platforms like Facebook and Instagram,” Lev suggests, noting that this applies if the child is old enough to use such platforms. “After a child goes missing, their privacy takes a backseat to their safety.”
Regular communication with law enforcement officials is essential. Share any updates or new information that you discover. Authorities can provide guidance on the best course of action. However, Lev advises parents to stay proactive and ensure that the police remain engaged in the case.
“Maintain regular contact with the police and investigators,” Lev advises. “Persistency, consistency, and determination are crucial in keeping the story out there and reminding people to help find your child.”
Search nearby areas, follow advice, and involve the media
If there’s a suspicion that the child left willingly, it’s a good idea to search nearby areas and consider places they may have gone to.
“If your child is still missing and the police haven’t located them, you may want to reach out to reporters, media personnel, or even influencers,” suggests Lev. “Do everything possible to circulate your child’s image and aid their safe return.”
Prevent future incidents by staying vigilant
While technology provides increased surveillance and connectivity, it can also be a distraction. Giglio emphasizes the need for caregivers to remain attentive and observant when with young children.
“While walking down the street, everyone seems to be engrossed in their phones,” he remarks. “Practice situational awareness, be mindful of your surroundings, and avoid leaving children unattended in cars or shopping carts. Even at the park, keep a watchful eye on your child.”
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