Carolyn Hax: Husband Claims Inability to Control His Continuous Interruptions


Adapted from two online discussions, here and here.

Dear Carolyn: My husband has developed a habit that is quite bothersome. When I try to convey information, such as “If you get hungry before I finish my shower, dinner is prepared and in the fridge,” he consistently interrupts me and dismissively responds, “We won’t!”

He claims he can’t control it due to his busy and tired state, and believes he needs to say things before he forgets them. However, I find his behavior impatient and rude. I simply want to finish my sentences without constant interruptions or distractions. Additionally, I am concerned about the negative example this sets for our child. Can you shed some light on what might be causing this behavior?


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Rushed: It appears that both of you are experiencing stress and could benefit from taking a break. If this behavior is recent, consider finding ways to take time for yourselves and adjusting your communication style temporarily. Instead of providing unnecessary information, allow yourself to focus on your shower. Offer only the information that he specifically asks for or needs to know, such as the pickup time for your child. Utilizing text messages can also help in creating a written record for important details.

If this behavior has been ongoing for a while, it might be a symptom of a larger issue, such as problems in your marriage, health concerns, work-related stress, or an undiagnosed neurological condition. In such cases, it may be beneficial to seek professional help or intervention. However, before exploring those options, try treating it as a result of both of

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