This essay is based on a conversation with Morgan Duram, a full-time content creator who relocated from Michigan to Madrid. It has been edited for clarity and length.
Just over two years ago, my husband and I moved from Michigan to Madrid and started our own dental practice.
Since our move, I’ve encountered numerous cultural differences. Some are minor, like the absence of right turns on red or the different date formats.
However, there are some significant differences that took me by surprise.
1. Spanish mealtimes are later
Meal times in Spain differ from those in the US. For instance, here in Spain, we usually have lunch around 2 or 3 p.m., which is considered late in the US.
In addition, dinner often begins at 9 or even 10 p.m., and many restaurants don’t open until 8 p.m. This adjustment in meal times was initially challenging for me and the most personally shocking difference.
2. Siesta from 2 to 5 p.m.
In Spain, the daily schedules are also distinct. Many Spaniards work until seven, eight, or even nine in the evening.
Despite the late working hours, there’s a concept called siesta, which translates to “nap.” While not everyone participates, it’s common for people to take time during their workday to rest. This break typically occurs between 2 and 5 p.m., the hottest part of the day.
During this time, individuals might nap, have lunch, or simply take a break from work. Most stores are closed, encouraging people to relax.
3. Socializing is a top priority
I’ve also noticed a strong emphasis on socializing in Spain. People here love being together and enjoy social gatherings. For example, I’ve attended events where weekend lunches lasted over six hours.
In comparison, Americans often prefer quick interactions and being in and out. However, in Spain, we have something called sobremesa, where conversations continue for an hour or two after finishing a meal.
Spaniards also socialize after work. Unlike the US, where people tend to come home, watch TV, eat dinner, and go to bed, in Spain, I was surprised to find bustling restaurants on Wednesday nights. Spaniards love company and are always engaged in activities.
4. Valuing time off in Spain
Vacation days are more abundant in Spain compared to the US. As a dental hygienist in America, I had approximately seven paid vacation days per year. Additionally, if you were sick or had personal emergencies, you were often expected to come to work anyway.
In contrast, Spain offers more time off, and employees don’t face guilt for taking vacations. It’s genuinely encouraged to step away from work, unwind, and recharge.
Since moving to Spain, I’ve observed numerous cultural differences, but the most significant one is definitely the value placed on togetherness.
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