The Motherhood Lesson I Regret Having Learned

Dear Mom, As I sit awake at 2 a.m. in our ground-floor apartment, thousands of miles away from you, I can’t help but reflect on the challenges of motherhood and the love and admiration I have for you. It’s one of those cursed nights when I can’t sleep and my thoughts are overwhelming me. It’s …

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Thinking about Laziness in a More Productive Way

As someone who is known to those closest to me as a curious amalgam of discipline and ineffectuality, my idiosyncrasies often leave others bemused. Without fail, I rearrange the contents of my refrigerator with the speed and precision of a professional Tetris player, yet I once let a snake plant wither away because I forgot …

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