Dear Ms Understanding,
I am seeking your advice on how to approach a conversation with my white friend who only dates white women. I believe this is a racist “preference” and want to persuade him to be more open-minded. It seems unjustifiable to me that he can limit his dating pool based on warped societal norms.
However, I understand that this is not necessarily a concern for women of color. While microaggressions and racism matter, it’s not our responsibility to convince someone to date us or to make them change their preferences. Instead, I think our focus should be on the root of the issue, which is the narrow definition of beauty that society imposes on us.
As someone who has experienced the burden of whiteness, I feel empathy for my friend and the limited experiences that come with subscribing to societal norms. While he may be missing out on diverse and interesting sexual attractions, ultimately, it is up to him to recognize his own privilege and broaden his horizons.
Furthermore, I urge you to examine whether your friend’s attitudes towards race align with your core values. If this is just one instance where he demonstrates problematic behavior, it may be a sign that your friendship has diverged. It’s important to surround ourselves with people who share and support our beliefs.
In closing, I hope that your friend finds love where he is looking for it. I believe that there are plenty of women out there who do not want to deal with the weirdness surrounding their race in their love life. Thank you for your time and consideration.
Sincerely,
[Your Name]
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