Amber and Gary from ‘Teen Mom’ Discuss Safe Sex and Birth Control with Their Daughter

• Amber Portwood and Gary Shirley engaged in a conversation about their daughter’s decision to go on birth control.
• Shirley clarified that this doesn’t mean he’s encouraging her to have sex, but rather, he wants her to prioritize her safety.
• The coparents aim to demonstrate to parents and teens how to navigate these discussions effectively.

During a recent episode of “Teen Mom: The Next Chapter,” which features Amber Portwood and Gary Shirley from “Teen Mom OG (2009),” the coparents had a discussion with their 14-year-old daughter Leah about her choice to take birth-control pills. In another scene, Shirley and his wife Kristina sat down to talk about how their doctor recommended birth control to help regulate Leah’s menstrual cycle and provide sex education.

Portwood revealed that conversations like these are not uncommon for their parenting trio, emphasizing the importance of their supportive relationship. She expressed gratitude that Leah witnesses such support, as it helps guide her towards a positive future. Portwood stressed that avoiding conversations about sex and birth control can negatively impact a child’s mental health, career, and overall future. She believes it is crucial to discuss birth control, especially considering the number of young girls getting pregnant at an even younger age than 14.

Shirley echoed Portwood’s sentiments, emphasizing that supporting Leah’s decision regarding birth control doesn’t equate to encouraging her to engage in sexual activity. Instead, it is about ensuring her safety in case she makes any risky choices. He wants Leah to have the necessary tools if she decides to engage in such activities.

Open Conversations Establish a Supportive Environment for Teens

Ultimately, it was Leah’s choice to share this conversation on camera. Shirley emphasized the importance of providing a safe space for teens to express themselves. They decided to share the discussion publicly in hopes of helping other parents and teens understand how these conversations can unfold. Despite potential backlash over sharing a private moment, they believe it’s crucial to encourage more open discussions about sensitive topics like sex and birth control.

Portwood hopes that sharing Leah’s story will foster better understanding between parents and their teenage children. She believes that Leah serves as an inspiration, encouraging parents and teenage girls to have meaningful conversations with one another.

Portwood commended Leah for her maturity and courage in handling these sensitive discussions. Reflecting on her own teenage years, Portwood admitted that she wouldn’t have been able to confidently discuss sex and birth control at Leah’s age. She recognizes the pressure and attention on young girls entering high school and appreciates Leah’s openness, honesty, and desire for parental support.

A study by the National Bureau of Economic Research found that shows like “Teen Mom” played a role in reducing teen pregnancy rates to record lows between 2009 and 2010.

Offering Guidance and Allowing Independence

As Leah starts high school, Portwood reminisces about her own freshman experience and acknowledges the stark difference in maturity between her and Gary at that age. With a tinge of humor, she admits to their wilder tendencies. Shirley explains that Leah isn’t focused on dating at the moment but rather prioritizing her education and extracurricular activities like cross-country. He advises her to concentrate on herself, school, and making lasting friendships, as boyfriends can come and go. Portwood and Shirley only want Leah to be prepared for whatever the future holds, expressing pride in the young woman she has become and optimism for her future.

While Shirley acknowledges the learning process involved in stepping back and allowing Leah to manage her own routines, such as waking up and getting ready for school, he and Kristina still keep a close eye on her schoolwork to ensure she remains on track.

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“She’s a very smart cookie, very motivated, and I’m proud of her,” Shirley shared. He admits that it’s bittersweet to see Leah growing closer to adulthood, but he believes she will make a positive impact in the future by helping others. Portwood, too, expresses her pride in Leah’s development and is hopeful for what lies ahead.

You can catch the new season of “Teen Mom: The Next Chapter” on MTV every Wednesday at 8 p.m. ET.