To the Editor:
I recently read Sarah Wildman’s emotional essay about her daughter, Orli, and I can’t help but feel a deep connection to her words. Like Ms. Wildman, I know what it’s like to search for a child who is no longer there, to see glimpses of them in unexpected places, and to hold onto the hope that they will somehow come back to us. I lost my son, Jack, suddenly many years ago, and the pain of that loss still lingers. The longing and guilt that Ms. Wildman describes resonate with me deeply, and I want to express my heartfelt sympathy for her loss.
In our darkest moments, my husband and I used to say, “We’ve grieved so well, can we please have him back now?” It was a desperate plea to the universe, a refusal to accept the reality of our loss. But we knew deep down that nothing could bring him back. And so we carry on, cherishing the memories and the love we had for him.
Ms. Wildman’s essay is a powerful reminder of the enduring love between a parent and a child. Through her words, she has immortalized Orli and given her the gift of remembrance. It is this love that sustains us in the face of unbearable grief, and I am grateful to Ms. Wildman for sharing her story and allowing us to glimpse into her world.
Bonnie Gilliom
Chapel Hill, N.C.
To the Editor:
Sarah Wildman’s essays about the loss of her daughter are filled with grace, dignity, and an overwhelming sense of sadness and grief. It is a testament to Ms. Wildman’s strength and courage that she has allowed us into her world, to witness the devastating loss she has experienced.
The collision of two universes—the vibrant, beautiful world of Orli and the darkness of grief—is captured so poignantly in Ms. Wildman’s words. She grapples with the incomprehensible pain and tries to hold on to the beauty and joy that her daughter brought into her life. It is a painful journey, one that cannot be managed but must be endured.
While there is no greater loss than that of a child slipping away, Ms. Wildman has found a way to preserve Orli and her memory through her writing. It is a gift to all of us, a testament to a mother’s love and a reminder that even in our deepest moments of sorrow, there is beauty and strength to be found.
Robert S. Nussbaum
Fort Lee, N.J.
To the Editor:
As someone who has also experienced the devastating loss of a child, I resonate deeply with Sarah Wildman’s essays about her daughter’s death. My son was much older when he passed away, but the pain and longing I feel for him are still as profound as ever.
Ms. Wildman’s eloquent articulation of grief as an ever-changing but everlasting presence brought me both comfort and solace. It is a powerful reminder that we are not alone in our grief, that other parents have also felt the soul-wrenching pain of losing a child and have found a way to carry on. It feels like a warm hug to know that we can keep the memories of our children alive and honor their lives by sharing their stories with others.
I hope that Ms. Wildman’s essays continue to touch the hearts of those who read them and serve as a testament to the enduring love between a parent and child.
Patricia Koulepis
Phoenix, Md.
To the Editor:
The recent revelations about Justice Clarence Thomas’s private trips with a billionaire show a flagrant disregard for ethics and have irreparably damaged the once-respected institution of the Supreme Court. The public trust in the court may never fully recover, but Chief Justice John Roberts has the opportunity to begin restoring it by urging Justice Thomas to resign. The privileges and benefits that Justice Thomas and his wife have enjoyed should be enough for a lifetime. A graceful resignation in the interest of the court and the country would be a great service to justice and to his own legacy.
Fran Moreland Johns
San Francisco
To the Editor:
The idea that someone with no government experience, particularly a successful businessman, can become president has gained traction in recent years. It is interesting to note that while we wouldn’t trust a political novice to perform surgery or cut our hair, many people believe that they can effectively lead a country.
Donald Trump, with his lack of experience in government and limited knowledge of history and foreign policy, has demonstrated that there is a difference between the skill and experience required to obtain the job of president and the skills and experience needed to actually do the job. This revelation challenges the assumption that a politician must have an extensive background in government to be successful.
Vivek Ramaswamy appears to have learned this lesson, and if successful, it could expose a weakness in democracy. We must be cautious and consider the qualifications and abilities of those who seek positions of power in our government.
Clem Berne
South Salem, N.Y.
To the Editor:
The recent infestation of lanternflies in New York City has sparked a bloodsport mentality among residents, who see killing the pests as a solution to the problem. However, this approach sends a troubling message to our children.
Attempting to control the population of lanternflies by stomping on them one at a time is both futile and ethically problematic. Encouraging our children to take pleasure in destroying life, even if it’s a small and annoying one, raises questions about our values and our relationship with the natural world.
Instead, we should view the lanternfly infestation as a consequence of human activity and teach our children to be better stewards of the planet. By acknowledging our role in introducing and spreading these pests, we can encourage a more thoughtful and responsible approach to environmental challenges.
Ari Greenbaum
Teaneck, N.J.
To the Editor:
The proposal by Matt Gaetz and other Republicans to defund Jack Smith’s investigation into former President Donald Trump is reminiscent of a child sticking their fingers in their ears to avoid hearing something they don’t want to hear. It is a refusal to acknowledge the truth and an attempt to shield themselves from uncomfortable realities.
Growing up means facing difficult truths, even when they go against our preconceived notions or desires. Unfortunately, some people still prefer to remain ignorant and live in blissful denial. We cannot afford to ignore the truth and must hold those in power accountable for their actions.
Robert Selverstone
Westport, Conn.
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