I’m Attracted to My Husband, but Struggle with Lubrication During Intimacy | Life and Style

Last year, I faced an issue with maintaining lubrication during intercourse

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Although the problem initially resolved itself, it has now resurfaced.
Despite my husband’s efforts, I tend to dry out as we continue.
I am taking antidepressants, so I wonder if they could be the cause.
I haven’t made any changes to my lifestyle.
I still feel a strong sense of arousal, but I rapidly become dry.

The sexual side-effects of certain medications should be examined by consulting with your GP.
However, arousal and lubrication issues can also be caused by physiological and psychological factors.
Additionally, many women require direct clitoral stimulation not only before, but also during intercourse.
If you notice a decline in excitement, encourage your partner to pleasure you in a way that reignites your arousal.

It is important to investigate the root cause of your dryness, as specific remedies are tailored to the causes.
For example, supplementation may elevate lowered hormone levels.
In some cases, intrusive thoughts can interfere with sexual interest, so focusing on pleasure can be helpful.
However, regardless of the reason, applying a lubricant can alleviate the problem you are experiencing.
Chronic vaginal soreness can lead to more serious issues, so it is advisable to have a lubricant on hand during lovemaking and use it preventively to avoid any discomfort.

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