IRINA, 40, Single for six months, no children
Dating Background:
Last year, I was involved with someone for six months, but unfortunately, it didn’t work out. Since then, my dating experiences have been quite dreadful. One man even had the audacity to ask if I wanted to be a “rich housewife” who remained silent and looked great all the time. Obviously, I walked out of that situation without hesitation.
Pre-Date Nerves:
Instead of being nervous, I felt more excited. My life is in a good place right now, and I’m open to meeting someone new. At 40 years old, I’m looking for a kind man who has his life together.
First Impressions:
Lee caught my eye with his well-built physique, sandy-colored hair, and stubble. When I stood up to give him a polite kiss on the cheek, he immediately showed his friendly and talkative personality. My initial assessment was positive; he is definitely attractive.
Easy To Talk To:
Yes, our conversation flowed easily, but that was because I asked Lee a lot of questions. We discussed his life experiences and future aspirations. I was delighted to hear that he had been learning to become an elephant handler at a nearby zoo before the pandemic. It warmed my heart to see his passion for something he had always wanted to do.
I also shared that I am a holistic personal trainer specializing in menopausal women. I was impressed that Lee took the initiative to research what “holistic” meant so he could engage with me about my profession. Though he may have wanted to know more about me, I kept the focus on him to understand what he is looking for in a partner.
Embarrassing Moments:
The restaurant environment was a bit noisy, making it difficult for us to hear each other at times. However, it didn’t deter us from enjoying our time together. I made it clear that I prefer a man who exercises regularly and discouraged any “couch potatoes” from pursuing a relationship with me.
Did Sparks Fly?
I’m uncertain about the chemistry between us. There wasn’t a rush of butterflies or fireworks in my stomach. Nevertheless, we got along well, and if we lived closer, I would have agreed to a second date to explore the connection further. Lee is a genuinely lovely person.
See him again?
If Lee happens to be in London again, I see no reason why not. He asked for my number and even sent a message afterward to thank me for the lovely date.
What do you think he thought of you?
He expressed having a good time, so I believe it was a positive experience for both of us.
Would your friends like him?
Yes, my friends would appreciate his company, but they would also recognize that we have significant differences. Lee has lived his entire life in a small village, while I come from the bustling city of London. Our worlds are quite distinct on multiple levels.
LEE, 45, Single for three years, with one daughter, 17
Dating Background:
I had a ten-year-long relationship with the mother of my child, but we split up a decade ago. Since then, I’ve had a few relationships, but meeting new women is challenging because I reside in a small village where the same faces are encountered daily.
Pre-Date Nerves:
Typically, I tend to be a cool and collected individual, but upon entering the restaurant, I felt nervous.
First Impressions:
Irina captivated me with her blonde hair, welcoming demeanor, and attractive figure. I wore a blue shirt with grey trousers, and she donned a colorful dress. I was more than happy to hug and kiss her when we met because she truly appealed to me.
Easy To Talk To:
We engaged in conversations about our interests outside of work. Irina shared her love for food and travel. Her mantra of facing fears head-on deeply resonated with me. As a holistic personal trainer, she incorporates both the mind and body in her approach, which I find admirable. Selflessness is a trait I value in women.
Irina showed an interest in my past experiences as a trainee elephant keeper, which left a lasting impression. I appreciated her recognition of my passion for working with animals I have always adored.
Embarrassing Moments:
I forgot to leave my bags with the receptionist at the front desk, which led to an embarrassing situation of me walking through the restaurant with a suitcase. Not my finest hour, indeed.
Did Sparks Fly?
We realized early on that we live far apart, and that might have hindered our ability to fully explore the potential for a connection. It’s a shame because Irina is a wonderful and attractive person. I did my best to flirt and make a connection with her.
See her again?
If Irina suggests meeting up again, I would definitely say yes. We bid farewell at the station with a kiss on the cheek and a cuddle. I would have liked to continue our date.
What do you think she thought of you?
Honestly, I am uncertain. She seemed to like me, but there was no awkwardness between us.
Would your friends like her?
Absolutely, Irina is genuinely friendly, and I would be happy to introduce her to my friends.
IRINA’S VERDICT: 8/10
LIKED? Lee is chatty.
REGRETS? Lack of chemistry.
COFFEE OR CAB? Cab.
LEE’S VERDICT: 8/10
LIKED? We had fun.
REGRETS? None.
COFFEE OR CAB? Cab.
Denial of responsibility! VigourTimes is an automatic aggregator of Global media. In each content, the hyperlink to the primary source is specified. All trademarks belong to their rightful owners, and all materials to their authors. For any complaint, please reach us at – [email protected]. We will take necessary action within 24 hours.
